Her Daughter's Murderer Went Free — And She Helped Him

By Rosa L. • Feb 19, 2025
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Linda White's life shattered in 1986 when her 26-year-old daughter, Cathy O'Daniel, was brutally murdered by two teenage boys. The crime was horrific — Cathy was abducted, raped, and shot to death by 15-year-olds Gary Brown and Marion "Marvin" Berry. For years, White lived with grief, anger, and the belief that justice meant punishment. But then, she did something few could imagine: she forgave her daughter's killer.

A Mother's Pain, A Killer's Confession

Cathy was last seen leaving her parents' Houston home after dinner. The two teens, Brown and Berry, were caught days later in Cathy's car near Dallas. They had been on a crime spree, stealing and using drugs across Texas after escaping from a Houston rehab center. Eventually, both boys confessed that Cathy was dead but pointed fingers at each other.

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They had apparently encountered her at a gas station, stranded after their stolen car broke down and convinced her to give them a ride. It was Brown who ultimately led authorities to her body, abandoned on a secluded dirt road, and confessed to the full extent of the crimes. The following year, Brown and Berry, both tried as adults but too young for the death penalty, took plea deals — Berry received 55 years, and Brown 54.

A Different Kind of Justice

Linda White was in shock for weeks after her daughter's murder, struggling to cope. Initially, the Whites turned to the Houston chapter of Parents of Murdered Children for support. At first, the group provided comfort, offering a sense of understanding they hadn't found elsewhere. However, as time passed, White grew uneasy with the group's strong focus on harsher punishments and longer sentences. Though she initially embraced their views — going so far as to appear in a video advocating for lowering the death penalty age — she eventually felt it wasn't helping her heal.

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White later wrote in an opinion piece for the Austin American-Statesman, "After a while, though, I realized the focus on anger, revenge, and retribution was interfering with our healing and I needed to take another path, a path not focused on inflicting more punishment."

A Surprising Meeting

In 1995, Texas launched a victim-offender mediation program, one of the largest in the country. A decade after Cathy's murder, White sought to meet the two teens responsible. Prison officials denied mediation with Berry due to his history of violent incidents, but Brown, who had a clean record and expressed remorse, was approved.

White's husband and sons chose not to participate, but Cathy's daughter, Ami, who was only 5 years old at the time her mother was murdered, joined her grandmother. During the emotional four-hour meeting, Brown tearfully recounted the crime in detail, including Cathy's haunting final words: "I forgive you, and God will, too," Slate reported.

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White and Ami, overwhelmed with grief, shared memories of Cathy and urged Brown to make his life a form of atonement. Before parting, the three exchanged hugs, with White reassuring Brown, "We'll be watching you," Slate reported.

After the encounter, White recounted the event to The Campaign for the Fair Sentencing of Youth, saying, "When I met him, I discovered a young man whose life had been one of abuse and neglect ... Though he offered no excuses for his actions, what he told me helped me to understand how he could have done such a tragic deed. His total remorse was an incredibly healing encounter for me."

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Redemption and Second Chances

After serving 23 years, Brown was released from prison due to overcrowding. White supported his reentry into society, staying in contact and even helping him secure a birth certificate so he could find work. Brown kept his promise to live a better life, holding steady jobs and staying out of trouble. He told White according to Slate, "Every day that I'm out here, that was one more day I was telling you I was sorry for what I done. I would show you through my actions and my proof and what I do out here that shows you I wasn't that kind of person of what I was back then."

A Legacy of Forgiveness

White's journey led her to advocate for criminal justice reform. She now speaks in prisons, urging inmates to take responsibility for their actions. She also campaigns against harsh sentencing for juveniles, arguing that young offenders — like the one who killed her daughter — are capable of change.

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White wrote on the CFSY website, "Gary (Brown) was released from prison in 2010 after serving 23 years of a 54-year sentence. He is a remarkably different person than he was as a teenager. He is proof that young people, even those who have done horrible things, can be transformed."

Linda White's story is proof that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting. It means choosing to move forward — even when the past is unbearable.

References: He Killed Her Daughter. She Forgave Him. | Opinion: Youth deserve second chances, not the death penalty | "I donated to the CFSY in memory of my daughter"

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