Olivia Newton-John's Partner Vanishes: Faked Death or Fatal Accident?

Olivia Newton-John, 1978. Photo by Bert Verhoeff under CC0 1.0.
In 2005, Patrick McDermott, longtime boyfriend of iconic actress and singer Olivia Newton-John, vanished during an overnight fishing trip off the coast of California. Though authorities ruled his disappearance a drowning, rumors of a staged death have persisted for years, fueled by alleged sightings and compelling photographic evidence. What really happened to McDermott, and why does this mystery still captivate so many?
A Hollywood Romance Turns to Tragedy
McDermott and Newton-John had been together for nearly a decade when he boarded the Freedom fishing boat on June 30, 2005. The trip began like any other, but by morning, McDermott was gone. His wallet and personal items were found on the vessel, but none of the 22 passengers or crew members saw him fall overboard. Three years later, the U.S. Coast Guard declared him legally dead, citing an accidental drowning as the most likely cause.
A New Theory Emerges
Despite the official conclusion, whispers of a staged disappearance began to swirl. McDermott reportedly owed thousands in child support and was struggling financially. Investigators later uncovered evidence suggesting he withdrew money from his bank account and possibly acquired a passport under his birth name, Patrick Kim. These revelations raised the question: could he have faked his death to escape his debts?
In 2009, a Dateline NBC report supported this theory, suggesting McDermott orchestrated his disappearance to avoid his obligations — including an alleged $8,000 in unpaid child support to his ex-wife. Olivia Newton-John, though deeply affected, publicly expressed her struggle to accept the mystery, telling "60 Minutes," "It's human to wonder but, you know, those are the things in life you have to accept and let go," as reported by The Independent.
Sightings in Paradise
The intrigue deepened in 2017 when an Australian magazine New Idea published photos purportedly showing McDermott alive in Mexico. The images, supplied by a private investigator, showed a man resembling McDermott relaxing on a Sayulita beach alongside a mystery woman. Experts analyzed the photos, with some claiming a 90% match to McDermott's earlier pictures.
Private investigator Charlie Parker, who analyzed the images, said, "The widow's peak is exact. The eyes are very similar, and the ears extend down on the head the same distance. I believe it is him," as reported by The Independent.
Local rumors also placed McDermott in Sayulita, reportedly living a quiet life with a German girlfriend. Despite this, definitive proof of his existence has remained elusive.
Unanswered Questions
Olivia Newton-John moved forward with her life, marrying John Easterling in 2008. Before her death in 2022, she maintained that McDermott's disappearance was a painful chapter, but one she had made peace with. Yet, for fans and investigators, the case remains an enigma. Did Patrick McDermott truly meet a tragic end, or was his disappearance part of a calculated escape plan?
As time passes, the mystery surrounding McDermott's fate serves as a haunting reminder of how some stories may forever remain unsolved. Whether he is alive or not, the lingering uncertainty continues to captivate those drawn to tales of love, loss, and elusive answers.
References: Did Olivia Newton-John's Ex Fake His Own Death? | Olivia Newton-John: Mystery of former boyfriend who 'was found in Mexico' after going missing for 12 years